"FUNK" Update

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Comment by Carol Wadkins on November 11, 2009 at 7:40am

So many reponses and so many great words and thoughts that are sent with caring, concern, and friendliness. Again, I say it's a very special group of quilters! There isn't anymore that I can add to help you, but I will say the Dr is right, if you can stay off of the pills, it's for the better. But, if you need them to get past this, then by all means!
I hope you are able to get beyond this "funk" you are in. I know how tough it can be, especially this time of year.................
God bless! Hugs!!

Comment by Joana Simmers/GA on November 10, 2009 at 1:18pm

Georgia, don't you love the wisdom and kindness that flows from the women on this site! I will just add that you are a very precious creation from God--I hope you find your way out of this funk and that you emerge stronger on the other side. Blessings on you--Joana

Comment by Ginger Anne Johnson on November 10, 2009 at 10:44am

Another quilter suggested that we post something that we're thankful every day. My suggestion to you is to keep a notebook and every night write 5 things in it that you're thankful for, and not repeating anything from the preceeding nights. And when you're feeling down, pull the notebook out and read them over again. My daughter finds that she doesn't need any anti-depressants when she gets up and runs every morning. I pray that our Lord will shine his light on you and in you!

Comment by Barbara Graham on November 10, 2009 at 10:33am

My heart goes out to you. You've gotten some great advice from the others. Exercise, eat healthy (yes, chocolate is good for you) watch funny movies, pet an animal, help someone else. We all have times of grief and stress, it's part of being human but try to push aside the dark curtain, a little at a time. If something makes you smile--fabric, frog figurines, polka music--revel in them. (I can't feel sad if I listen to Strauss waltzes) Keep us posted.

Comment by Gail in Maberly Ontario on November 10, 2009 at 9:55am

Georgia..this time of the year seems to be a trigger for some people and combined with other problems in your life it can make it seem hopeless...the best advice I can give having been there myself is to remember to take each day as it comes...tomorrow WILL be better...hang in there until the "black cloud" lifts...if it goes on for more than a few months though I would be thinking of getting some medication to see you through...there is no shame or harm in that....sometimes we need help to get through to the other side...

Comment by Sandy F. on November 10, 2009 at 9:14am

Georgia, I, too have been in funk lately, for some of the same reasons as you. It's hard to think things will get better, but they will. I have a good friend who has been calling me everyday, sometimes a couple of times a day, to tell me to work on my squares and it has been helping. Sometimes she is annoying, but it is helping. I also got together with a few other quilters and we had a little show and tell of things we've made and that has put some spark back also. You need to work on making yourself happy anyway that works for you. Crafts shows don't always go well, maybe the suggestion of give something to Charity will work. I will pray for you. God Bless, Sandy

Comment by Aida Castro-Jacques on November 10, 2009 at 8:38am

Sometimes we have to look beyond our own shortcomings and failures. If sewing and quilting don't seem to pick up your spirit, you may consider doing volunteer work. With the holidays coming, there are a lot of organizations needing help, not necessarily money, but time and effort. You may find comfort in helping others who are not so fortunate as you are.
You are in my thoughts and prayers - Aida

Comment by Roseann Marsett on November 10, 2009 at 8:33am

Basically, we've all been there. When we're in the funk seems we can't seem to see the end or the good down the road. Different things work for different people.
When my younger sister was in a bad funk I used to drive to her appartment and run around the party lot with her. She hated me for about a week but then she started to feel better. Endorphins kicked in, I guess. We started with one trip around the lot. Within a very short time I couldn't keep up with her (so I quit) She kept it up every night and within a short amount of time she was better. Her life didn't change, just her outlook. I got depressed once and the doc put me on an antidepressant. I was only on it for a month but it helped me see my way out. Do whatever works for you but know that there is an end to the funks. A year from now you will look back and wonder why you were so down. That's the good part of getting through it.

Comment by Sharon Reeves on November 10, 2009 at 7:31am

I don't know that I can really add anything that hasn't already been said. Quilting is a gift and we should treasure it. Also, the economy could have something to do with your craft fair sales not doing so well. Just keep your chin up and know that you are a worthwile person with much to offer. Keep on trucking, girl, and I'll also keep you in my prayers.

Comment by Bonnie on November 10, 2009 at 7:26am

Georgia,
good thoughts heading your way. I hope the funk does resolve soon. You have to be easy on yourself. If the spark is not there for sewing, put the sewing aside. Try jewelry or fresco painting or......
You have the best pick me uppers with those beautiful labs. A walk/jog/pull with mine sure helps AFTER I get out the door.
I also find when I get down, I need to read and listen to funny books- Janet Evanovich where I can belly laugh at Lula, old stories, travel stories, but nothing depressing, political or too serious. I tend to think of the stories I listen to while I made a quilt when I look at that quilt. Some have a few tears sewn in.
Keep letting us know how it is going.
Bonnie

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