Janet, I wouldn't be surprised if they dropped the case with Bud. If they did it would be nice to have let me know. In Bud's POA Bud has me as his guardian. But the hold up was or is that his doctor maintains that Bud is capable of making his own decision on whether he wants to go with Barbara. I talked with his doctor the other day when I was visiting Bud and he had to admit Bud's mind is getting worse. This should never have happened. This Barbara had not seen him in the 20 years that he has been with me so all her motive was is to get his money. Bud said to me the other day, "why don't you call your mother and have her watch the kids, so we can go out and have a meal together" My mother has been dead for 11 years and Bud and I never had any kids together so that's and example of how his mind is.
After this last trip to the hospital, I know that the assisted living place is not healthy. They found me to be both anemic and very malnourished, which I'm trying to turn around while I'm in rehab. Too bad this is a nursing home...I would love to stay here.
Janet so sorry to hear about your DIL. I will be praying for her. As we are all aware, cancer is a terrible disease and the treatments have side effects. My sister has lost her taste, and has neuropathy in her hands from it. Plus diarrhea and a bunch of other ailments. I will pray that she will recover from it. Many do.
As for Bud and the phone, they aren't allowed to keep it from him. But he don't call that much if he knows I'm home. He panics when he calls and I'm not here even though I tell him where I'm going. His dementia he can't remember half of what I tell him. Sometimes I just shut off the answering machine. But most of the time I forget to do that.
Bud is about the same. I took a boiled dinner over to my sister's last night and had supper with her and her caretaker. I had 25 calls on the answering machine when I got home. Insanity runs in his mothers family and his actions indicate he inherited it. He panic's if he can't reach me and will keep re-dialing if I don't answer. You can hear the anger and fear in his voice when he is leaving his messages. Even though frustrating for me it must be awful for him to be like that.
Janet tell your friend who is downsizing that you take charity. lol I have the last load of fabric in the dryer. I have been washing since 7:30 this morning. It is now 1:30. My first load the washer sprung a leak. While the men were fixing it I had to go up to the next unit. (4 apartments to each unit) to wash. I hung as much as I could on the line but used the dryer for the fabric. I did bedding, my regular wash and bedroom mats. Now I'm thinking I could have saved some for tomorrow. You know, hind sight.
Thanks, Janet! it felt good to finish that wedding quilt - and the blue china plate quilt. I feel like I can move on to other projects. I've been stalled out for so long, hopefully this will motivate me to finish those other projects that are waiting patiently in bins.
I agree with you Janet that attending things here in the Rec. hall is good for meeting other residents. I met a lady yesterday that lives in back of me. I know the majority of residents here already. But new people are coming in often. There are 90 apartments here. They are having a free fish chowder luncheon here today but it's very cold and blowing snow around so I didn't go. I have to be out tomorrow to do errands and Thursday for a funeral so I'm staying in today.
It certainly breaks our hearts when we see our children struggling, doesn't it Janet ? seems we can do nothing but watch and hope they learn quickly. I'm sure your house is big enough for all of you to stay in....but as a parent you "make do" and sacrifice your privacy for their long term stability.... As frank and I would like to say: "You got to do what you got to do"
So you have your own group of grandchildren...How sweet! I was hoping for more but they think 2 is enough...
Well DH is home...so I do want to spend some time with him as he isn't home very long..He goes in at 12:30-9pm today...
My 2 quilts that I have been working on are almost done,,I got the sashing done on both of them,,which was "white" One quilt is pink,,which is going to some little girl,,(Just 9 blocks that I randomly used for the BOM for the quilting class that I teach). I don't know who it is going to yet...
The other one is The kitty quilt that is going to New York...My cousin bought the fabric and I am making it for her grand daughter...I'll post pictures when I am done.
Here's to hoping to a quiet New Year!
I love your work,,you do such great quilts. Have a great day................
Thanks Janet,,,He is the light of our lives...Yes we will miss them terribly. Now we think it is there turn to come visit us,,we have been UP there 3 times already!
Where do your grand kids live?
I started on my quilt for my cousin,,The top...it's half way done. I worked on it till 10:30 last night,,My DH came home and cut out the fabric and off to the sewing machine I went...So much of a good day I make pasta sauce, cooked a turkey breast, made corn chowder, and worked on another quilt while I was working on this one...What a great day! No depression yesterday. and I even put a button the Christmas ornament I started weeks ago. Yay!
Hope your haveing a blessed day as well...............
I will do....I may not be on here as much we will be going up north to see our newest grand baby,,Jackson Marcus....We will be there for 10 days, and we will see everyone. I hope.!
My cousin wants me to make her a quilt for her grand daughter,,,so that will be the first thing on my list when I get back home,,,
My girlfriend I teach quilting lessons to..finished the top,,no borders on it yet...but at least it's done..she may have it done by January,,,if she sews her heart out....and in time to give it to her "Mom" for Valentines Day...
Have a great Thanksgiving,,,,Ours will be extra special we spending it with family....
Janet,,You have inspired me,,I need to make a QOV quilt,,,I have several family members who were in the service,,My brother, my uncles,,my cousin,,,yeah I could do that,,,and thank you for what you have show me,,simply beautiful work you do...and Thanks for being my friend as well...
I agree with you concerning HGTV and the young people who look at beautiful homes and complain about them being out dated. In my day we just wanted a home of our own and worked over many years to fill it with furniture and make improvements that was necessary, not because it was outdated. And we were delighted to take things that were offered to us. Used t.v.'s, dishes, or anything else we could use.
Morning Janet, No my house hasn't sold yet. Now that Bud is gone and my arm nearly heeled I will go over and finish getting the things I want and have my moving sale and close it down. Hated to go that route but it is what it is. There are so many houses on the market here. Cost of heating is driving people to warmer climates or smaller apartments.
No Janet, I haven't received any offers so far on the house. The realtor showed it last weekend but I haven't heard a word. Houses have not been moving here for quite some time. Most people want to rent to buy and I will not rent. I have seen many houses trashed by renting them out. And the cost to run big houses is driving people to the smaller homes. I'm praying God will send a buyer soon.